Rest…in Pieces!

Osama Bin Laden and my mother in law will inevitably meet in the same place once they “cross over!” She’ll sue him and he’ll go into hiding…. again! JOKE!

Based on my act, I was sued by my mother in law for “defamation” but won. People say, “It was dismissed, why do you think YOU won?”

Because… she’s dead.

I’m begging my in-laws to get their OWN spotlight so I can go on with my life! Cyber Stalkers! Disturbing, vicious e-mails continue, clearly sent from them.

Most disturbing is the greed.

While sitting Shiva we receive a call from one of Ruth’s brokers informing us that someone impersonating “Ruth Zafrin” requested a transfer of funds to her checking account! The number was traced to a “914” area code. Brooklyn is still 718…it’s not Westchester! They couldn’t wait for her head to be cold before they started in on her money!

My BROTHER in law, married to my husband’s sister is persona non grata in my life yet he and his wife convinced an 80-year-old grandmother to sue her grandchildren’s mother over…. JOKES containing the “racist” names Hadassah and Goldie! This frivolous lawsuit and family influence was obviously very stressful on my mother in law.

Ruth Zafrin was found dead in her apartment alone on March 29, 2011.

Not a teary eye at the funeral with the exception of my oldest nieces and their mother, aka: “Plaintiff”. I feel genuinely bad for her as she must live with the guilt of knowing she influenced and convinced Ruth to join the lawsuit as she and her husband didn’t have a chance of winning without Ruth’s testimony. G-d only knows what anguish Ruth went through. Forced to hurt her two beautiful granddaughters. Once the case was lost, she wasn’t needed anymore and sadly, died alone.

Informed at the funeral that my husband’s brother’s wife spoke ill of my little ones to her daughter (of the same age) was sickening. “Stay away from those girls because they are “evil!” perpetuated the unreasonable hatred of this “family” to the next generation.

Mazel Tov to the Zafrin family! Mission accomplished: Ruth’s dead and….YOU get the money that my husband worked for with his father for 20 years! There is blood on someone’s hands and it’s not mine…I just hold a microphone and I’m ready to REALLY tell it like it is. Never again will my kids be exposed to this toxic family of “Chazerai!” They will never see them again and THAT’S the real win! Stay tuned…This column is going to become a movie! To my fans that sent condolences and donations to Gilda’s Club of Northern NJ, Ruth would have thanked you…had she lived.

5 Responses to “Rest…in Pieces!”

  1. Sunda,

    Having first written about you on 28/08/2009, I am so happy to read that you have prevailed on behalf of your lovely children. I know how hurtful it is when your children are subjected to the racism of a community that is supposed to embrace all righteous converts but instead rejects those who do not possess European lineage. I eventually had to take my son out of Orthodox Jewish Day Schools after five years of trying to make it work.

    Now he attends a British School and the internationality of the students there (who are from everywhere in the world, primarily children of diplomats) it has had a profoundly positive effect in the recovery of his self-esteem that was badly bruised by his encounters with racism.

    Truly, it is sad that you had to go through this for so long and could only win this frivolous suit with the death of your mother-in-law but in the end justice was achieved on behalf of your children. Your in-laws may have won from a monetary perspective but they have assisted in perpetrating the stereotypes that many people have of Jews in relation to money.

    Stay strong and be well!

    In case you don’t remember the article that I wrote about you it is @

    Best regards,
    Ayanna Nahmias

  2. hschurr says:

    Thank you Ayanna! You are very kind and let me know when you’re in LA and we’ll try to get your book on the show “James and Sunda” on Jewish Life Television…along with you, of course!

    All the best! And most of all…thank you for caring.


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